Good point, John. My ostomy nurse told my husband, while I was in the hospital, that he was going to learn how to change my appliances, as the first couple of weeks was going to be a challenge for me while I recovered from surgery. Lee could be a great ostomy nurse if he wanted to! He was not put off by doing it at all and helped me to gain the confidence I needed to do it on my own. In fact, the first time he changed my appliance, the ostomy nurse was very impressed with his precision. She said she could tell he was a carpenter!

Stella

My husband was there for my first change and has tried to learn all terminology .  I think he would give it a good try if he had to change my appliance .  Now i almost feel like I should write up a script for him to follow.  Or just direct him here!

The way I look at this is we carry a few supplies in case of emergency. we may never use them for ages but its a back up. next time you change ask yer husband to watch, talk through what you are doing and why you do it. Plus say that night time problem happens, how useful would it be to have extra help to have new pouch ready while you where in the shower.

My wife has been a huge help for me the whole time . Even helps me now because of other little issues . Its great to have a supportive spouse ........

I agree..great to have help when you need it most!

Also.. If you keep some made up 'kits' handy ( like in your bag or near the shower etc), be sure to swap them out occasionally with fresh ones.  That will ensure that they are still the correct ones and that they are not old.