I attached some photos in case any ladies interested. The 7/8 tights I purchase directly from champion but you can find them on sale at other places online as well. I just make sure to get cotton blend. The Ostomy wrap you can get on Amazon at the corsinol store. 

I have found that shoes even matter as we are walking especially for hernias as we are walking and stepping it’s affecting our abdominal area. I’m really liking the Yeezy slide type shoes for summer but can’t afford Yeezy so I but the fake version from Walmart or target. 
for tennis shoes I like kuru. The shoes really do matter especially for the hernia or if you are carrying extra weight in your abdominal area you want to avoid a hernia. If heavy in that area yes, you want a good shoe and a good support garment around your abdomen. Even if you’re not heavy in that area. Stoma’s are so prone to hernias.  You want a nice soft Cushiony step. Kuru makes all types of shoes as well as dress shoes, boots etc.. so below if you click on the links I put some examples and things I have in my Ostomy wardrobe arsenal. 

Google for side gathered and wrap dresses and see if any look like what you are trying to find.  both of those styles help to distract the eye with out being to baggy.

Its a bit of a pain to google for clothes, but once you find a source or brand that works for you then you can stick with it.

I shop on online resale shops and spend too much time doing so, but I do save money when trying new styles or brands of clothing.

I also use the google search photo tool to find similar items ( right click on an image then select search image with google)

Here are a couple of ideas:

https://www.avenue.com/plus-size-dress-marina-217149magentafestivalfl

and

https://www.jcpenney.com/p/robbie-bee-plus-short-sleeve-medallion-puff-print-sheath-dress/ppr5008277872?pTmplType=regular&country=US&currency=USD&selectedSKUId=22427400042&selectedLotId=2242740&fromBag=true&utm_medium=cse&utm_source=google&utm_campaign=Sheath%20Dresses&utm_content=22427400042&cid=cse%7Cgoogle%7CWomens%7cSheath%20Dresses_22427400042&kwid=productads-adType%5EPLA&gclid=EAIaIQobChMIlv2f0b7P_QIVuxqtBh1e8wyUEAQYBSABEgLhXPD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds

and 

https://www.avenue.com/plus-size-dress-linda-217146seafoamfestivalb

and

https://www.macys.com/shop/product/city-chic-trendy-plus-size-color-wrap-print-dress?ID=14441888&pla_country=US&CAGPSPN=pla&trackingid=424x1052346714&m_sc=sem&m_sb=Google&m_tp=PLA&m_ac=Google_Womens_PLA&m_ag=GGL_PLA_Womens_Catchall&m_cn=RTW-PLA-Womens-Catchall-GS&m_pi=go_cmp-12520766312_adg-116481418982_ad-505347536134_pla-306854907574_dev-c_ext-_prd-9346639949664USA&gclid=EAIaIQobChMI4NfutcHP_QIVvhCtBh3F9wG6EAsYCSABEgLSSPD_BwE

Laurie